Where Are Your Earrings?

Like many little girls, I had my ears pierced when I was a baby. I had no say in the matter, but everyone around me seemed to place so much value on a little girl having pierced ears. I’m not sure if it was meant to make me appear more feminine or simply to signify that I was a girl, even though anyone, regardless of gender, can get their ears pierced. Either way, getting my ears pierced opened the door to being asked a question I’d hear frequently: “Where are your earrings?” At every social gathering, every Sunday at St. Mark, every supper at grandma’ house.

It’s not that I didn’t think earrings were cute—I just found them uncomfortable. Too heavy, too clunky. In general, most earrings irritated my ears. So, when people started asking about them, it only made me want to wear them less.

My discomfort with earrings played a role in my general lack of interest in jewelry. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve developed a deeper appreciation for accessories. I’ve learned that adding a few key items—whether it’s a charm bracelet, a classic black bag, or a pair of bold sunglasses—can really elevate your look, taking you from basic to bombshell.

What I’ve come to realize is that the right accessories don’t just complete an outfit—they elevate your confidence. When you wear something that feels like it was made just for you, it has the power to transform your entire demeanor. A bold necklace can change your posture; a delicate bracelet can remind you to stay grounded. Accessories are not just adornments—they're extensions of who you are.

I wanted to compile a list of some of my favorite accessory brands—ones that know how to elevate any look.

By Briannee – This brand is all about making a statement, and I promise you’ll feel like you’ve been dipped in gold. If you’re looking for floral pieces, a Jesus piece, or bangles to stack for days, this is the brand for you.

2. Lacey’s Custom Creations – Feel that breeze? Perfect—Lacey can make your crochet dreams come true. From handmade beanies to ruffle hats, she’s got cozy winter essentials you need in your closet!

3. Berna Peci – This brand has something for everyone. Whether you’re after 90s-inspired watches, tarnish-free rings, or gold-plated anklets, Berna Peci should be at the top of your list.

4. Fifty Shades NYC – Have you been searching for a pair of sunnies that make you stand out? Fifty Shades provides a wide variety of styles for everyone. You can elevate any look with a pair. These styles are guaranteed to activate your inner It Girl.

5. Idalia – Designed and made in London, Idalia creates intricate crochet bags in a variety of colors. But beware—you might find yourself adding more than one to your cart, as these designs are truly one of a kind.

6. Luxxd Jewelry – Looking for stylish, affordable pieces to add to your collection? Luxxd specializes in worry-free, water-resistant jewelry that’s also hypoallergenic. We love a conscious queen!

7. MyPearlitas – Who says pearls are outdated or overrated? MyPearlitas has shown just how versatile pearls can be. This brand puts creativity and style at the forefront, offering designs that feel both whimsical and modern. If you want to channel your inner fairy, MyPearlitas has you covered. My personal favorite? The ring collection.

8. By Lolita Jewelry – If you’ve been told your whole life that you’re "too much," but you're finally ready to embrace the fact that others were simply "never enough," then Lolita Jewelry is for you. This brand combines spunk and grace with stunning necklaces, bold earrings, and rings that are designed to be passed down from generation to generation.

One of the reasons I’m drawn to these brands is their inclusivity. They celebrate a variety of styles, body types, and identities, making sure that everyone can find something that speaks to them. Jewelry has always been about personal expression, and these brands make sure there’s something for everyone—whether you prefer something bold or understated, classic or avant-garde.

P.S. I’m still working on wearing more earrings... don’t tell my aunties.

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